Frequently Asked Questions

We are asked many questions by our clients. These are among those most frequently asked (….but remember, if you have a question not answered here, you can always contact us).

1. What is NLP?
2. What is NKI?
3. How does 1to1 Life Coaching differ from counselling, therapy or consulting?
4. How does NLP add value to 1to1 Life Coaching?

 

1. What is Neuro Linguistic Programming (or NLP)?

NLP is an attitude – it enables you to look at life as a rare and unprecedented opportunity to learn, grow and develop your human potential.

NLP is a methodology – it presupposes all human behaviour has a structure that can be modelled, learned, taught and changed (re-programmed).

NLP is a constantly innovating and evolving technology – enabling human beings to continually create amazing changes that can make a new and profound difference to themselves and their environment.

Dr Richard Bandler, the creator and genius behind NLP, built his amazing technology by studying the linguistic and behavioural patterns of experts to create formal models that he could then apply to his work. These included experts like Milton Erickson, Fritz Perls and Virginia Satire, and Dr Moshe Feldenkrais, to name just a few.

As a structured methodology that models excellence NLP is constantly evolving to create new techniques and human potential technologies.

NLP assumes you can:

• Change the process by which you experience reality so that you can gain more value from the reality you experience.
• Perfect your communication so that you get the exact behavioural response and understanding that you want to achieve.
• Maximise your sensory acuity through increased understanding of your senses (visual, auditory, kinaesthetic, olfactory and gustatory) to gain the best value from the information within your environment.
• Elicit the resources you already have within you to enable you to create the change you desire.
• Go beyond your belief systems (the “map is not the territory”) to enable you to create beliefs that can foster change for the better.
• Hold your positive self worth, while examining the appropriateness of how that worth is expressed by your internal or external behaviours.
• Understand the positive intention that motivates every behaviour and the context in which that behaviour has value
• Act upon and utilise all communications/behaviours presented to you to create the outcomes you want to achieve
• Overcome the limitations of feedback versus failure and to look upon all results and behaviours as achievements and determine whether or not you want to keep or change the outcome that has been achieved

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2. What is Neuro Kinaesthetic Integration (or NKI)?

We have called the combination of Richard and Moshe’s work; Neuro Kinaesthetic Integration. It is in essence physical NLP/DHE/Hypnosis. Learning these models provides you with a vast array of new behaviours with which to influence the world.

Neuro Kinaesthetic Integration is a concise way to progressively increase responsiveness. You might say physical responsiveness, but all externally observed behaviour is physical. It is the N in NLP. As such, increasing responsiveness physically is the evidence of increasing mental and emotional responsiveness. In that sense it is identical to all good NLP outcomes. To be more responsive is to be more appropriate more of the time, in life. To be physically more appropriate is to be healthier, more comfortable, and to have an easier time in everything you do. Since these are kinaesthetic outputs, the most effective and information rich response to any physical output is direct kinaesthetic input (hands-on).

NLP programmes have left this bit out of the trainings, until now...

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3. How does 1to1 Life Coaching differ from counselling, therapy or consulting?

It’s a good question! The answer is within the relationship we have, as your performance coach, with you.

At NewAmbition we believe that you (the client) are the expert in all areas of your life; you know your life inside out.

Our expertise is not that we have the answer but that we have the expert skill to elicit from you the answer that you most need to realise.

It is like a sports coach! The sports coach is not responsible for winning that 100-meter race. He is responsible for eliciting the best states, resources and performance from his client. So even before they run that race, they know they can win, and when they race, they do.

It is a bit like a guide taking you on a journey. You may celebrate a wonderful sense of achievement when you get to your destination and so you should because you have done it. Equally important (and sometimes quietly to yourselves) you will know that you could not have got to your destination if it were not for that quiet unassuming guide. Helping and supporting you, in the background, at every stage in your journey, with the right touch, that gift of encouragement and motivation, helped you on your way.

A coach is not there to provide the answer; in the way that a consultant or mentor or therapist would provide. He connects with you on the presupposition that you (the client) have all the resources that you need to succeed.

A true Life coach gently facilitates you to tap into your magnificent resources and experiences that help you find the answer.

Your coach will help you stay on track with the solutions that you have selected and committed to. They will act as a resource that sometimes will be thought provoking and sometimes clarifying.

They, in service to you, provide a security net to help clarify the desires that you want for your future so that you can make sure that this is really what you want .

A coach provides an ongoing structure and accountability to develop the abilities and skills to achieve your goals, your dreams or your desires.

Most of all it is successful people who seek out coaches for they know the value of a coach working completely committed to their goals.

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4. How does NLP add value to 1to1 Life Coaching?

NLP grew out of a study on human excellence. The incredible work of DR Richard Bandler has created a human change technology that gets incredible results by eliciting the potential within an individual

Mahboob Momen, the founder of NewAmbition has worked and trained directly with Dr Richard Bandler for over 12 years.

He is a skilled Master Practitioner in all of Richard’s incredible human potential change technologies.

He is currently the personal apprentice to Dr Richard Bandler and because of this he can make a significant and real difference to your life. Mahboob can provide you with:

• Access to the most advanced human change technologies that can tangibly assist you in clarifying outcomes you desire. He can help you identify your values as they have an incredible impact on the outcomes you create. And he can remove any issues or obstacles that seek to prevent you from achieving your goals.
• He can implement for you strategies that will create your golden future.
• He can help you understand the deep structure of human influence.
• How you can gain a more positive experience from your interactions with other people. And how this enables you to create more incredible results from them.
• He can greatly increase you effectiveness in all areas of your life. He can help you evaluate maps that create your reality so that together you can look outside this map and take on new understandings that broaden your horizons and grow your potential.
• He can create for you significant results more quickly and effectively.
  He has a vast array of human tools, technologies and applications that can clear specific issues or blocks that may be routed in the past so that they do not affect your present and your future.
• He can help you clarify your outcomes, common goals and desires freeing you to take that first brave step towards changing your life.
• Added to this Mahboob has a vast array of experiences both on a business and personal level that will be of significant advantage.
• He has particularly strongknowledge of the models of excellence that all champions use to create the outcomes that they want with their life.
• He can give you the edge you need - as if by magic.

Mahboob will take you on a journey of magical change in your life, that will seem effortless, and where you will achieve far more than you ever imagined …

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